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Host: Brad Schipke • Overcoming PTSD Podcast • Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching

In this Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching session, Brad breaks down what it really takes to stay sober while you’re still in the thick of PTSD, pain, and triggers. Instead of waiting to be “fully healed” before getting sober, he shows you how the sobriety journey and the healing journey run side by side—and why you can’t afford to postpone one for the other.

Brad explains the crucial difference between the habit of using and the underlying trauma and pain that drive it. Whether your “thing” is alcohol, drugs, food, TV, pornography, spending, video games, or codependent relationships, he helps you validate it as a real addiction or compulsion so you can finally take it seriously and start changing it.

You’ll walk through the addiction cycle of pain–use–pain, why your brain can literally create anxiety and problems just to push you back to the addiction, and how self-talk becomes the deciding factor between relapse and sobriety. Brad also lays out the phases of recovery—from “recovery rehearsal” to the first 90 days to building a life of long-term sobriety.

Most importantly, you’ll learn how to plan for pain, build healthy replacement behaviors, and use commitment, dedication, and moment-by-moment choices to stay sober even on days when it feels like you’re fighting for your next breath.

 

💡 What You’ll Learn

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  Why addictions and compulsions so often show up alongside PTSD and trauma

  
  


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  The difference between the habit of using and the underlying pain or trauma

  
  


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  How to use self-talk to interrupt the pain use pain addiction cycle

  
  


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  How to validate your “thing” as a real addiction or compulsion so you can change it

  
  


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  How to map the real-life consequences of your addiction and use them as motivation

  
  


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  A practical way to think about the first 90 days of sobriety with PTSD

  
  


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  How to plan healthy replacement behaviors for your triggers and urges

  
  


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  Why commitment and single-minded dedication are crucial for getting and staying sober

  
  


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  How to use everyday recovery tools to ride out urges without relapsing

  
  

🧠 Key Takeaway

You don’t have to wait until you’re fully healed from trauma to get sober—your brain can learn to stay sober even while you’re still in pain.

 

🔗 Next Steps

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CHAPTERS:

00:00  Introduction to Recovery Secrets Daily Coaching
00:36  Recap of the Week's Topics
00:49  Understanding Sobriety and PTSD
01:31  Addiction vs. Compulsion
05:30  The Two Journeys of Sobriety
13:39  Breaking the Cycle of Addiction
15:50  The Power of Self-Talk
22:49  Commitment and Dedication to Sobriety
29:30  Breaking the Addiction Cycle
29:55  Exploring Healthy Alternatives
32:07  Understanding Recovery Phases
34:03  Navigating the 90-Day Challenge
37:59  The Power of Self-Talk
41:52  Empowerment and Commitment
53:23  Final Thoughts and Encouragement


 

Topics Covered:

PTSD recovery • PTSD sobriety • trauma healing • trauma and addiction • compulsions and PTSD • breaking the addiction cycle • self-talk for PTSD • nervous system regulation • emotional regulation • trauma coping tools • recovery toolbox tools • 90 days sober • neuroplasticity and trauma • codependency and trauma • addiction recovery coaching